Lately, I’ve been diving deeper into the dimensions of relational health—and no, not just the usual focus on relationships with people. While human connection is essential, there’s a wider web we’re often unaware of: our relationships with things, situations, mindsets, money, self-care, even time.
If you’re anything like me, it’s easy to default to thinking relationally only in terms of how we interact with people. But pause for a moment—what’s your relationship with the things that surround your everyday life?
I’ve been asking myself:
- What is my relationship with this situation?
- How am I really approaching it?
- Is it draining me or developing me?
- Would Jesus approach this differently?
Sometimes I don’t have a clear answer. But in those moments, I lean on something timeless: What principle does God lay out in Scripture that I can extract like nectar from a flower and apply it here? Because I don’t want to keep making decisions that hijack my altitude, promise, possibility, or yes… profit. (Wall Street has been reminding me about that last one lately.)
Relational health isn’t only about how we treat others—it’s about how we think about everything.
How we relate to ambition.
To failure.
To money.
To our own growth.
That’s why I’ve been revisiting John Maxwell’s Thinking for a Change. Eleven powerful thinking skills in that book will challenge you and change you—if you apply them. Combine those thinking strategies with prayer and scriptural truth; the transformation might shock you.
But let’s be real—sometimes applying these concepts is easier said than done.
So if you feel like you’re in a season where you need clarity on your relationships with not just people, but with the situations and patterns that keep showing up in your life—I invite you to take one simple step:
Schedule a personalized consultation with me.
Let’s walk through your thought process together. Let’s reflect, reframe, and renew.
Because you deserve to win.
I believe that.
And I’m here to help you do just that.
Let’s talk soon—your breakthrough may be one conversation away.
Your Biggest Cheerleader,
The Eve Speaks Team
