Growth is such a beautiful, transformative journey. It’s not just about adding things to your life—it’s also about recognizing what no longer serves you and boldly saying, “I reject that.”
For years, I accepted things I shouldn’t have. Anxiety used to wrap itself around my days like a suffocating blanket. The kind of anxiety that doesn’t just creep in—it floods your life, leaving no space to breathe, think, or function. I accepted that as normal for too long. But as I grew, I said, “No more.” I reject living in a state of constant worry. I reject being paralyzed by the idea of speaking in public or on camera. And guess what? That’s why I started Evespeaks. It became my practice ground, my safe space to grow and step into the courage I knew was within me all along.
I used to accept the lies people told me as a child—“You won’t amount to much.” But today? Oh, today, I reject every syllable of those words. I reject them so fiercely that I don’t even let anyone come near my kids with that kind of negativity. If you try, you’ll be shown the door. And if my kids slip into speaking that way to each other, they’re writing a 200-word apology and asking for forgiveness, because I’m not raising them to live under the shadow of undermined potential.
I reject the limits others try to place on me. When I was told I could only earn a certain amount or stay within certain boundaries in my career, I didn’t just walk away—I ran. I quit that job, started my own business, and began living life on my terms, with a God who shows me possibility in high definition.
When I think about rejection, I also think about Jesus. He didn’t settle for mediocrity or tolerate disrespect, especially when it came to God’s house. Remember when He saw the money changers in the temple? He didn’t just sit back and accept it. No, He carefully considered His response, fashioned a whip, and drove them out, overturning their tables and making it clear: This will not stand.
We can learn from that. Growth requires intentionality. It requires us to carefully examine what no longer aligns with God’s best for us—and then to reject it. It doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when we actively choose to grow, to change, and to embrace the fullness of who we’re called to be.
So, What About You?
What’s one thing you used to accept that you now reject because you’ve grown? Maybe it’s a toxic relationship, a limiting belief, or a habit that no longer serves you. Whatever it is, drop it in the comments or share it with me—I’d love to celebrate this growth with you!
And if you’re ready to take the next step in your growth journey, let’s make it personal. I’d love to connect and explore how we can work together to help you heal, aspire, and grow into the best version of yourself.
Schedule a personalized consultation with me today—because your growth story deserves attention, care, and celebration. Let’s make it happen.
Here’s to rejecting mediocrity and embracing everything God has for us!
